No matter how sticky the situation, some men find themselves not only attracted to but in a relationship with a married woman.
The reasons for this range from exciting ones such as lust and/or love to the downright unfortunate one - ignorance about her marital status.
Not quite perfect enough to immediately leave his wife and sweep you off the market so no other can have you, but perfect enough to be his mistress for like ever—or until his wife figures out he’s cheating—whichever comes first. Perhaps he’ll leave after his wife after she finds out about your affair and throws his crap out onto the front lawn, you know, kind of like quitting your job after you got fired. A man who spent months, perhaps years, deceiving the women he loved. Still, it’s great that you found someone who gives you exactly what you want. I see many men on these dating sites that have this scenario. Then I read their profiles when they are in there 70's and suddenly they are not to picky anymore and their profiles look to be sad because they are desperately searching for someone. For the ladies, be very wary of men like this on online dating sites. These men will use you and are most likely cheaters and womanizers. He was divorced with no kids and only married for a short time previously.I even saw one with when the question is asked " how long was your longest relationship"? It makes me wonder ok, over 50, never married, no kids and longest relationship less than one year? He told me he was never getting married again, but he changed his mind quickly when I had a job offer out of state and was going to move and leave him. He was a good husband at times but most of the time he wasn't.The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her he wants out. Like the Groucho Marx joke, "He may not want to be of a relationship that would have him as a partner." 7. Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall. Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time -- and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing.When people who have been involved with married men finally move on, they often regret having wasted the time in a dead-end affair.